Ngaphambili Umama okwishumi elivisayo 2 Inkwenkwezi uJenelle Evans wayalela u-YouTuber ukuba apapashe amabali ngaye ngelixa wayehlukene nomyeni wakhe uDavid Eason, umntu ongaphakathi wazisa uHeavy kudliwanondlebe olwahlukileyo. U-Evans uye watyibilika malunga nokuba uhlaselo okanye uhlaselo ngokuchasene no-Eason luyinyani, Ukufowuna okokuqala u-911 uxelele amapolisa ukuba wophule ikhola yakhe ngo-Okthobha u-2018 emva koko ethatha izityholo, esixelela iVeki nganye ukuba ukungaqondi kokunxila, kwakamsinya nje ukuba bafumane ngokudibeneyo ngoJanuwari 2019.
Emva kokumangalelwa, u-Evans wahlukana nomyeni wakhe waya eNashville. Ukuqala ngo-2018, abasemagunyeni babethunyelwe njengakwiimeko ze-Evans kunye ne-Eason 25, ngokuhambelana Radar kwi-Intanethi.
NgokukaKatie Joy, obalekayo Ngaphandle kweCrystal Ball - Isiteshi esikhethiweyo seYouTube esingaphezulu kwababhalisi abayi-130,000 – yena noEvans baqala ukuthumela imiyalezo kwakamsinya emva kwezityholo zokuphathwa gadalala ekhaya. Uye wakhankanya ukuba babengengabo abahlobo, nangona kunjalo uEvans wavula kangangoko.
U-Evans ngempazamo wathumela umyalezo kuJoy kuqala, emtyhola ngokuthumela umfanekiso wonyana wakhe oneminyaka emi-6 ubudala uKaiser.Ndandihlala ndididekile ngenxa yokuba ndingakhange ndipapashe umfanekiso kaKaiser, u-Joy waziswa nge-Heavy.
U-YouTuber wongeze ukuba uyavuya ukucacisa naziphi na amarhe.Ndamazisa ukuba andikho ngaphakathi kwishishini lokusasaza ulwazi olungelulo, ke ukuba kukho into endinokuyicacisa, ndiza kuthi. Kwaye waqalisa ukuthetha nam, u-Joy uchaza. Uyakundazisa ngemiba kwaye abe ngathi ungayixela le nto, nangona kunjalo ungatsho ukuba ivela kum kwaye yile ndlela yezinto.
UJoy ukhankanye ukuba babhalelana imiyalezo iiveki nje ezimbalwa, nangona kunjalo uEvans unciphisa unxibelelwano noJoy emva kokuba umntu othile ethule eyangaphambili Umama okwishumi elivisayo 2 inkwenkwezi umfanekiso-mbumbulu obanga ukuba i-YouTuber ixhasa u-Eason. Sunciphisa ukunxibelelana nam ngesiquphe, kwaye akavumanga ukuthetha nam ukusukela, watsho uJoy.
Imiba yokucinga ye-YouTuber yayicimile xa uEvans ezama ukwazisa iindlela zakhe zokunika ingxelo kubalandeli bakhe.Bendihlala ndaziswa ukuba ndenze imicimbi, kwaye yayiyinto engaqhelekanga kum ngenxa yokuba andilunganga apha ukupapasha i-ajenda yakho, utshilo.Kwaye andilunganga apha ukwenza ibali. Andilunganga apha ukwenza ingxelo yomntu. Ndizama nje ukungabi namkhethe kangangoko ndinako.
Emva kwexesha uEvans waKhutshwa luvuyo

UJenelle Evans / YouTubeInkwenkwana eyayisakuba ngumama woLutsha ijongene nezityholo zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana.
Kanye ngaphakathi, i-YouTuber kamva yajika injongo ku-Evans, kunye neyangaphambili Umama okwishumi elivisayo 2 Inkwenkwezi ixelela abalandeli be-Instagram abazizigidi ezi-3 ukuba bangayikhathaleli iJoy kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zeYouTube ezinje ngeNgxelo yoBabalo.
Yayingoo-YouTubers ababengabokuqala ekuqwalaseleni izityholo zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana esi sibini sasijongana naso emva kokuba u-Evans ethumele inkundla yedokethi kuphando ngaphakathi kwesiqendu sesibini sokulandelelana kwakhe kwi-YouTube, ndinento endinokuyithetha.
U-Evans, u-Eason kunye nomama wakhe, uBarbara Evans, babetshilo ukuba abazi ukuba kutheni abantwana bethathiwe, besithi eyona nto inokubangela ukuba abasemagunyeni bafune ukubahlola yayingumsindo ka-Eason. Amaphepha enkundla avela eColumbus County, eMantla Carolina, kwindawo ahlala kuyo uEvans no-Eason, avuma ukuba baphandwa ngezityholo zokuba babephatha gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo abantwana.
Imiba yesi sibini yaqala xa u-Eason waphandwa ngenkohlakalo yezilwanyana emva kokuba wadubula wabulala i-canine yekhaya, iNugget, ngoMeyi 2019. Abantwana babo - uMaryssa oneminyaka eli-13 ubudala, uKaiser kunye no-Ensley oneminyaka emi-3 ubudala - bebefutshane ukude nendlu. Babuyisiwe ngoJulayi emva kokuba ulutsha olukhusela iinkampani ligqibe uphando lwalo.
Bobabini uEason noEvans bazikhanyele kabukhali ezi zityholo. Isizathu kwangaphambi kokuba wazise Heavy Oko yayingeyonto ityholwayo. Jonga iphepha lamaphepha enkundla ngaphambili kunokuba uthethe into ibenye ekwenza ube ngathi usisidenge, watsho. Kwaye indawo yayithe ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuka-Ensley?
Mhlawumbi ufuna ukugcina ngokulandelelana kwe-YouTube ukuze uhlale uhlaziyiwe, uqhubeke. Awunakunqwenela ukupapasha idatha evela kubazondi.
Ubunzima bufikelele kumagosa avela kwiColumbus County kwiSebe leeNkonzo zeNtlalo eNorth Carolina nangona kunjalo bengafumananga mpendulo.
U-Evans akazange aphendule kwisicelo sikaHeavy sokumakishwa, nangona kunjalo kwividiyo ye-Instagram, wazigxeka izityholo zokuxhatshazwa ngokuchasene no-Ensley kwaye wahlasela iNgxelo yeGrace. Ke ngoku nantsi ingxelo kuwe, uGrace - okanye nokuba yeyiphi na isihloko sakho - izityholo zokuphathwa gadalala ibibubuxoki kwaye yayikukuhlukumeza umzimba ngokuchasene nonyana wam - akukho nto inokwenza nentombi yam, utshilo.
Kutheni uvuyo ekwabelwana ngalo 'ngaphandle kweRekhodi' Imiyalezo ebhaliweyo noEvans
Phakathi kokubiza iNgxelo yoBabalo kunye nejelo lakhe lobuqu likaYouTube, u-Joy uthumele imiyalezo yokubhaliweyo evela ku-Evans kwiakhawunti yakhe ye-Instagram eqinisekisa ukuba uEvans wamazisa uEason ukuba wayenomona ngelihlo alinike abantwana bakhe kwaye wayiphatha njengekhoboka.
Uvuyo lujongane kancinci nokubuyela umva ngokwabelana ngemiyalezo, nangona kunjalo wakhankanya uninzi lweempendulo ezazikwifayile.Into ebacaphukisayo ngabantu abambalwa abanjengokuba andinakucinga ukuba ungazithatha izinto akuxelele zona kwifayile kwaye uyipapashe kwi-intanethi, nangona kunjalo isiqingatha sezinto sasingekho ngaphandle kwefayile, u-Joy wazisiwe Heavy . Kwakukho umbuzo omnye, emva koko wayendalathisa esithi, 'Thumela le,' nangona kunjalo ithi ivela kulo mntu.